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March 24, 2008, 2:09 pm : I haven’t had sex for 20 years

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I haven’t had sex for 20 years


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  1. admin Says:

    This Saddens me.
    If I can help in any way let me know.

    The Individual Effects of Sexual Abuse on Children
    It may take decades to understand the long-term effects of childhood sexual abuse. Because the trauma is so great, many people block out the abuse or are unable to connect the abuse to the difficulties they have experienced throughout their lives. The consequences for every individual survivor will vary depending on whether he or she had a support system, whether the abuser was stopped early on, and whether the individual was able to confront the abuser.

    For more information about the individual costs of sexual abuse, contact the Law Offices of Timothy D. Kosnoff

    Victims of child sexual abuse or child molestation are much more likely to suffer long-term psychological and emotional problems. It is common for victims to have anger and depression problems, sexual problems, drug and alcohol dependency, antisocial behavior, and other difficulties throughout their lives. Many studies, including “Wounds That Time Won’t Heal, ” have shown that sexual abuse at an early age can actually have enduring effects on brain development and function.

    The long-term effects of abuse may include:

    Fear, anxiety, or depression
    Anger, hostility, or aggression
    Inappropriate sexual behavior
    Self-destructive behavior
    Drug abuse
    Alcohol abuse
    Tendency towards re-victimization (increased likelihood of abuse by another abuser) )
    Sexual maladjustment (compulsion, addiction, or extreme aversion)
    Flashbacks (post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD))
    Marital difficulties
    § Loss of the ability to trust

    Emotional Effects: Therapy Can Help

    There are a number of ways to cope with abuse. Many types of sexual abuse therapy have been shown to help victims regain control over their lives. However, traditional talk therapy for victims of child abuse may not be enough; most experts believe a combination of cognitive and behavioral therapy is best. Both therapies work together to remove the power that traumatic memories hold over people. Eventually, the therapies aim to free survivors from the anxiety and depression that have plagued their lives.

    Cognitive therapy works to change thoughts about the abuse that are self-defeating and simply incorrect, such as thoughts that the victims are in any way to blame for the abuse. Behavioral therapy tries to change the behaviors, such as heavy drinking, that often come with the emotional and mental effects of child sexual abuse. (To read more, please see the article “How Deep the Scars of Abuse.”)



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